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Take Two And Call Me In The Morning-Sex Not Aspirin

January 30, 2011

In the past, this blog focuses on wellness, exercise, and mental health.  In this issue I will devote to the benefits of having intimacy with your partner.  Who would ever imagine that an activity that is so much fun could be so beneficial to your health.

Sexual intimacy is a form of exercise.  Each time that you engage in the sex act you burn approximately 100 calories.  Of course, if you have sex like Lady Chatterly’s Lover, then it’s a lot more.  Now 100 calories a pop doesn’t sound like much, but if you engage in sex 2-3 times a week, that’s 5000-7500 calories a year.  That’s equivalent to the energy required to jog from New Orleans to Mobile, Alabama.

In addition to the aerobic work out of huffing and puffing and increasing your heart rate, sexual activity provides resistance training.  This is the contraction of the muscles of the back, pelvis, and extremities against passive resistance.

Another advantage of regular sex is that it can actually lower your total cholesterol level, and increase the high-density lipoproteins (HDL) or the good cholesterol.  So if you indulge yourself in an extra steak with butter, indulge yourself in extra sex and you’ll be calorically even.

Sex also jump-starts your hormones.  Men can have a surge of testosterone during sex.  Testosterone is the hormone produced in the testicles that is responsible for libido or sex drive, muscle mass, and strength of bones.  Regular sex increases the level of estrogen in women which results in increase in the blood supply to the vagina keeping the vaginal tissues young, supple and moist.  There is even evidence that sex prior to or at the time of the menstrual period may relieve the symptoms of premenstrual syndrome (PMS).  There are other studies that suggests that oxytocin, a hormone secreted by the pituitary gland during sexual intimacy, contributes to long-term bonding between partners.

Sexual intimacy also results in the release of endorphins which is the ultimate painkiller or analgesic.  Endorphins are many times more potent that morphine, the most powerful man-made analgesic in use for the relief of pain.  So the next time you have a headache, don’t turn down sex but turn on and your relief is just a few minutes in the sack away.  There’s even a scientific explanation for the relief of headache pain with sex.  During sex there is an increase in the blood supply to the muscles and the genital organs.  As a result there is a decrease in the blood supply to the brain thus taking the pressure off of the tension in the brain.

For men, sexual intimacy is protective for the prostate.  Prostate infections and prostate enlargement, which begins after the age of 50 in most men, result in compression of the urethra, the tube in the penis that allows transmission of urine from the bladder to the outside of the body.  As a result men complain of difficulty with urination.   For dozens of years,  older men have gone to the doctor to have their prostate gland massaged to express the retained secretions that produce many of the symptoms of prostate disease.  For most men this is uncomfortable and expensive if you don’t have Medicare or insurance to pay for the doctor’s visit.  One inexpensive and fun way to relieve these symptoms produced by an enlarged prostate gland is to engage in sexual intimacy either through intercourse or even masturbation.   Both will produce prostate pleasing results.  So if you want to be good to your prostate gland, be good to your significant other….in bed.

Sex is good for stress.  Never let the sun set on an argument.  Having sex is an effective method of reducing the tensions that exist between partners.  You can’t be arguing when you are having good sex.

So for those of you who are not interested in going to the YMCA or a health club, you can have the benefits of a health club not in your own back yard but in your bedroom.   There are naysayers that say this is fooey. Take Two and Call Me In the Morning-Not Aspirin, But Sex. For those of you who need more motivation, give me a call and I’ll write you a prescription!

Choosing a Family Physician-One of the Most Important Decisions You Will Ever Make

May 11, 2010

People are not just an amalgam of their body parts.  Men are not composed of large prostate glands, sclerosed coronary arteries, and rusty libidos, although sometimes it feels that way. We come in complex packets of various sizes, shapes and colors, and attached to families, jobs, communities and cultures. Just like everyone else, we need primary care physicians as our allies and advocates in staying healthy, and getting the best possible health care.

Your primary care doctor — either a family physician or a general internist — should be the captain of your healthcare ship. Primary care physicians not only can handle the majority of illnesses that you may experience, but they can work with you to keep you healthy. They can help you decide what makes sense in a world where numerous entities are hawking remedies for life’s ills, from pills to diets to operations. The primary care doctor can help you select from this bewildering array of options, and then be your advocate when you do need specialized care beyond his or her repertoire.

So what should the average man do to get the most out of the health care system? The following are my suggestions distilled from over 30 years of being a doctor:

1) Select a primary care doctor.

The time to choose a primary care doctor is before you need one. Ask your friends whom they go to. Check with local clinics and hospitals and see which primary care doctors work near your home or your job. Check and see if your wife or significant other or child has a family doctor who would take you into his or her practice.

Then go and interview the doctor, find out whether their philosophy of medical care jibes with yours. Discuss your approach to health and illness, and see whether they will support you in your quest. Check their training and references to make sure that they have the training and skill that you need. Make sure that they are board certified in their respective specialty. There are advantages to seeing the same doctor as other members of your family. But probably the personal chemistry between you and your doctor is the most important factor in this choice.

2) Visit your primary care physician before you’re sick.

Almost all doctors have health maintenance protocols that are aimed at men your age, and consist of a schedule of regular visits and diagnostic tests designed to catch important problems as early as possible. Make sure your health maintenance protocol is up to date. For most patients, this will involve a visit every year or two, depending on your age, back­ground, and the medical problems you may have accumulated along the way.

3) Negotiate a plan with your doctor.

Medicine is a team sport, you and your doctor share the quarterback duties. Your doctor has a set of guidelines that are based on medical science and the evidence it produces. You have a set of values and preferences that will determine which of those guidelines make sense for you. Work with your doctor to come up with an approach that makes sense for you.

4) When you do need specialty care, work through your primary care physician.

Specialists will give you their honest opinion about the best therapy for your problem, but your primary care physician will help you put it into context. Primary care doctors can also help to coordinate care among multiple providers, watch out for interactions among drugs or therapies, and will still be available to care for you after a more specific problem is resolved.

Bottom Line: It is almost impossible these days to sort out the best approach to health care. Your primary care physician is the strong­est ally in choosing a path that makes sense for you.  The few minutes you take to make this very important selection may just be the most important decision of your life.

How To Become a Better Patient-You Need to Ask the Vital Questions

May 10, 2010

It is not easy being a patient.  Most patients are nervous and anxious when visiting a doctor and often forget to ask vital questions that will impact their health.  Here are six questions that you should ask your physician when he\she prescribes a new medication:

1.  What does this medication do?  What is the purpose of the medication?

2. How will I know if the medication is working?  Can you tell me about how long I will have to wait before the medication begins to work?

3. What are the side effects of this medication?  What should I do if I experience these side effects?  How common are these side effects?

4. Why is this medication good or effective for my condition?

5. Are there any other non-medication alternatives that I could try that may do the same as the medication?

6. What are the consequences of not taking this medication?

7. Is this a new drug?  Would a less expensive generic drug work just as well?

By asking these questions, you will demonstrate to your doctor that you are actively involved in your medical care.  You now become a part of the “team” and there is no one who should be more interested in your care than you.